This post will hopefully cover, is online dating effective? How to improve online dating? Other ways to meet girls?
Let’s start.
==Is online dating effective== Why or Why not?
Well, for me no, I did not use high quality pictures for the most part. It was effective for a girl friend of mine, who met her boyfriend through “tdotwire”.. But really on that site you can easily get replies.. But no real commitment or people seriously giving their MSN and coming online.
one girl I met online and actually got her MSN, one day we were supposedly going to go for movies, she even put her MSN name to “movies Monday with <my name>” …and yet on the day .. never heard from her, called her up and she said “sorry something came up”, talk about getting stood up.
So online dating, so far is ineffective. Why would that be? What’s the difference between walking up to a girl, rather than talking to her online , with pictures? Well, pictures can be of just the face, could be photoshopped ..
Which basically means pictures have disadvantages of
-People with LESS PICTURES, can be extremely skinny, or extremely fat, or something, and just showing the face you can’t tell
-Pictures can be deceiving i.e. Stretched/ or eye color can be modified.
==SUMMARY==
Online dating is INEFFECTIVE (BAD) BECAUSE:
- People can be fake
-less trust
-People can have fewer pictures, and some pictures might look good at one angle
-See pictures section for more info.
Online dating is EFFECTIVE (GOOD) BECAUSE:
-You can find local singles
-In-person sure you can approach a girl, but you won’t know if she is SINGLE, online it is a bit easier to know already
- Online getting rejected is less brutal I suppose.
-Online you can basically “speed date” plenty of girls and hope to get replies.
==How can we improve online dating==
-Web-cam capability
-Microphone capability
-Mandatory pictures showing body a bit
Hearing each others voices and seeing each other brings it one step closer to “keeping it real”. Perhaps a requirement to have pictures showing the body a bit, just the face is misleading as mentioned.
questions
How do you turn an online friend into a real friend? Let’s say you meet that special girl (or guy online)
First of all your need
1) Get the Girl or guys MSN.. Or give them yours…
girls on plentyoffish.com barely reply..and girls on tdotwire reply..I got like 1 reply from like 6 girls..and more from another, but when it comes down to being friends, well let’s just say none of them turned out to be friends… So I should keep searching. Maybe they are just on there to mess around and not in search of a serious friend.
2) eventually get a phone number.. But let’s let #1.. Getting MSN be the main goals
Getting some contact information is good. People may barely reply on that dating site, and if you get their MSN, you can “be there for them”, and thus begin the basis of friendship.
Obviously with a stranger you need to get to know their vital information…which I briefly believe I mentioned some of that include:
Nickname
Age
Height
Body Type
Does Smoking
Does Drugs
Approximate Weight Range
Location
Nationality
Religion
Gender
Gender At Birth
Sexuality
Skin Color
Born where
Main Language Spoken
Interests
Why would a gorgeous girl pick you as her man over all the rest?
What would you do on a first date
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