Why you should find a relationship earlier in life

 

By earlier in life, I mean that finding a girlfriend during the time I’m in school is idea. And school here can mean, college/university/ high school. Anything younger ill leave as debatable.

In School

• gorgeous girls are generally taken quite fast, a really hot girl would have a boyfriend in high school and be engaged or married by university .. Perhaps
• in other words.. By the time “you” have the chance to even say “hi” to her, she has a boyfriend
• something in common
• The whole dating, taking a girl out is ideal at a younger age
• argument: at age 30… To start taking a girl out to movies and get to know her… You would miss a large part of life
• They are educated

Not in school

• say you meet someone at a bar/club, they could be “stupid”, a failure… And you wouldn’t really know since you didn’t know them through school…(personally I wouldn’t want to go for a dummy.)

Now regarding the whole  finding someone earlier in life…some more pros/cons

Pros

• Less chance of mental illness in having kids with a child..(sidenote..)
• One in the workforce at least in my case.. There would be an office setting… And hook-ups within the workforce are seen as forbidden? ..
• Higher chance of finding someone that you are truly attracted to
• thus minimizing the chances of cheating
• You won’t go in public and be sick of seeing all the couples and hot members of the gender that you are interested in, who are pretty much not approachable ..
• and by not approachable i mean with friends.
• You won’t hate yourself in valentines day…

 

Cons

• if you start too early you could have “sex before marriage” and inadvertently have a kid and have to quit school or have a hard time managing.. (sidenote..)

~ by pdna on April 18, 2009.