TALKING TO GIRLS
I guess rule 1 would be : FORGET ONLINE DATING. Didn’t work for me.. but I guess 1 chance is better than no chance and there is a benefit that the girl is actually interested in dating, compared to introducing yourself to a girl and then realizing she has a boyfriend. In fact online dating you don’t need to work to find a girl’s religion and other dealbreakers… their profile often has this information . And when you think about it, to find a “Catholic” girl , in-person..well it would require a lot of trial and error. and imagine the effort of talking to so many girls when you would only date a Catholic girl. By talking to them it may give the girls the feeling that they have a chance at you and then…
A famous excuse I guess off the top of my head was “I didn’t know what to say”. The more you wait, eventually it gets to a point where the girl can take “ah, just forget it he is not going to talk to me” , and will just leave.
Now its a good sign, if a girl moves closer(well of course most girls will wait a few days before this…. i.e. if you see them again, they might just happen to sit close to you) and gives you a chance to talk to her alone.
if after graduating i didn’t talk to a girl, my excuse would be … well first of all i would be very sad that after so many years and chances..obviously i would have sen some girls alone who i could have approached. I should have asked myself “what’s the worst that can happen” like a close friend of mine recommended. Girls like to be chased. …
One good phrase to use is “Hey, I’ve seen you around…” (add a question) I guess after seeing someone around at school, well …
If every stranger guy didn’t talk to every stranger girl, I guess a lot fewer couples would be formed.
Well I’m restricted to find a catholic girl..which has the obvious flaw of..if i talk to a girl at school and she isn’t catholic well it plays with her emotions thinking she has a chance.. and then she would maybe expect me to say hi to her and stuff.and yet she sees other girls i talk to,… and i am seen as a pimp or something.. but then again it all starts with 1 girl.
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